"A man's manners are a mirror in which he shows his portrait."
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Nothing makes my knees weak like a courteous gentleman who respects my time and his. Please take a moment to peruse the below to ensure our correspondence is focused on building our anticipation and not particulars already addressed here.
Screening is always mandatory for first meetings. Pre-screening is strongly recommended, and rewarded. Please allow up to 48 hours for a response.
I will always arrive to our engagements exquisitely prepared and ask my gentlemen also employ the same care, arriving freshly showered and groomed, with fresh breath.
Frequently asked questions
How will you dress for our engagement?
Depending on what you have planned for our time together, I oscillate between alluring business casual and a beautiful dress and heels. I pride myself on sartorial discretion and will always be in elegant attire.
Why do you need screening information/references?
I know that for some, sending screening info can be nerve-wracking. Please note that I ask for the minimum amount of information necessary to feel comfortable on an engagement with someone I haven't met before. I utilize advanced encryption practices and delete all information once verification is complete. Please use your legal name as I will ask to check your ID when we meet and your name must match verification information.
Why do you require a retainer? I've been burned before, can you make an exception?
I often begin preparing for our time together well in advance, so a small nonrefundable retainer (25%) ensures mutual investment in our meeting. I've worked to develop an immaculate reputation and have no interest in jeopardizing that by mishandling your retainer. I consider an engagement confirmed only after I receive a retainer, with no exceptions. Should you need to cancel or reschedule, your retainer can be applied to a future date with 48 hours notice.
How shall I leave my consideration?
Please place in a card/gift bag in plain view wherever we first we meet. Bonus points if it's in a funny card, or a new book!
Are you newbie friendly?
Absolutely, and I'm flattered to be the one to welcome you to this wonderful world. For screening, in lieu of provider references, employment verification is an option.
What if I am shy/a certain ethnicity/concerned about my body, etc?
I'm attracted to all types of men and resonate with introverts and extroverts alike. My clients span the gamut in terms of physical appearance, occupation, and background - I do not discriminate based on color, creed, body type, etc (unless you put the TP roll on the wrong way, because we all know there is a right way!). Overall, I'm drawn to intelligence, authenticity, and generosity of spirit. If you are clean, polite, and reliable, we will get along smashingly.
Can I post a review?
I have a no review policy. I prefer we spend our time together focused on forming an organic connection, so please do not discuss our time with anyone. Discretion is of utmost importance, which is why I would never share your information either. However, I always appreciate a private note after our date if you enjoyed our time together!
What precautions do you take in the midst of COVID?
In addition to spacing engagements by at least 14 days, I also perform a temperature check for us both upon meeting and am frequently tested. I base additional precautions on individual preferencences and risk tolerance that we can review once we've secured our time together.